Healthy relationships consist of mutual support and respect for one another. When two people say “I do,” they commit to one another and to their future together.

The truth is that the wedding day is remembered as one of the most special events in most people’s lives and that is the reason why so much finances and so much effort are usually put into this meaningful event.

However, not everyone believes that they should give their best on this day, just like the groom from the following story.

Recently, a TikTok user uploaded a video of the wedding of her friend Catherine. The user explained that her friend didn’t believe that should fall in love ever in her life, but things changed this summer and she fell head over heels for the man she was now tying the knot with.

One thing was certain, Catherine was excited to be walking down the aisle. She was wearing a very beautiful wedding gown, jewelry, and expensive make up, making her looking gorgeous. Sadly, the same thing couldn’t be said about the groom, who appeared on his wedding day wearing a black T-shirt, jeans, and white sneakers.

The contrast between the couple’s choice of clothing made many give their opinion on not only the couple but their marriage as well.

A photo of the bride and groom was also shared on Reddit with the caption, “Groom’s wearing jeans at a fancy wedding.”

“This is probably indicative of the amount of effort he’ll put into the marriage as well,” one person wrote.

“I wonder how long this marriage lasted. She looks great, he looks like he couldn’t care,” another person added.

“He’s just letting her know she has a life of him not giving a f— about her ahead of her,” a third agreed.

Of course, there were also those who defended the groom’s choice of outfit.

“She looks absolutely beautiful, I love her dress. Not sure what their circumstances are but I wish them both the best,” one commenter shared their thoughts.

“Dunno. Maybe she wanted a dress like this, [he] wanted the outfit he had on their first dates, both are happy the other is dressed as they like,” another commenter speculated. “Over or underdressed for some standards, well dressed for their own standard.”

A third commenter added in unison, writing, “If they are happy, then who cares? If the groom just couldn’t be a–ed then that’s very sad.”